Dating an ex drug addict
Here are eight things that women are tired of hearing from men Establishing a healthy romantic relationship is not always easy, but dating a former drug addict or alcoholic can present its own unique challenges.If you have met someone and you feel a connection you would like to explore, but have just found out he is in recovery, you may be wondering if you should go forward.You might need to give up drinking, smoking, or using other substances if you’re going to date a recovering addict.
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That could not be more true when it comes to a relationship when one or both of the partners are in recovery.
Addiction is described by the Merriam Webster dictionary as the “compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (such as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal.” This broad definition can not take into account the many individual experiences of addiction and recovery. Some go to 12 step meetings or other sober support groups. Some find support and spiritual renewal in church while others engage in certain self-care practices to maintain an emotional and physical balance that allows them to remain free of addictive behaviors.
He could be wanting to take classes, try out different religions, and do other things that denote someone who is finding himself. You need to trust this person or it will never work out.
You cannot accuse him of relapsing because he simply doesn’t respond to a phone call for a couple of hours or isn’t available to see you for a few days. Recovering addicts often have codependent personalities and may throw themselves head-first into a relationship, as a form of a new addiction.